On Sat, 2008-10-04 at 14:27 +0100, Anne Wilson wrote:
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Then we must agree to differ. I consider it thoughtful to tell them once what is expected of them - and politely, which is not always the case on this or any other list I've read. Of course if they persist in breaking the rules, then they ask to be ignored IMO
I don't think we disagree. I also consider it thoughtful to politely "educate" newcomers. But that is *my* choice that fits with *my* standards. I was reminded when I was younger that I could not arbitrarily apply my standards to others. That stuck with me. That allowed me to step out of my own shoes and see things from other perspectives. Given that, not responding may not be rude. It may be due to lack of time. It may be one does not care. It may be ... well, many other things.
I also agree with you about the "impolite" (I would, if in a generous mood, term it "brusque") posts by many of this list. I choose not to waste my time calling them on it. I figure "their momma didn't raise them right" and I would be unlikely to affect their behavior. Obviously ego-centric personalities.
That's their problem, won't become mine.
Anne
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