[CentOS] Sendmail problem - baffled

Tue May 15 19:44:50 UTC 2012
Jussi Hirvi <listmember at greenspot.fi>

Our backup mail server (which I have just re-configured) tries to 
contact the primary mail server, and fails. My log shows repeatedly 
"connection refused":

May 15 22:21:41 mx2 sm-mta-rx[8674]: q4FIhPij007483: makeconnection 
(mail.greenspot.fi. [83.143.217.182]) failed: Connection refused by 
mail.greenspot.fi.
May 15 22:21:41 mx2 sm-mta-rx[8674]: q4FIhPij007483: 
to=<myuser at mydomain.com>, delay=00:38:16, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, 
pri=10021795, relay=mail.greenspot.fi. [83.143.217.182], dsn=4.0.0, 
stat=Deferred: Connection refused by mail.greenspot.fi.

But yet I can successfully telnet that host:

# telnet mail.greenspot.fi 25
Trying 83.143.217.182...
Connected to mail.greenspot.fi (83.143.217.182).
Escape character is '^]'.
220 mail.greenspot.fi ESMTP Sendmail; Tue, 15 May 2012 22:34:22 +0300

Also, the mailer-daemon *can* send automatic warning messages to 
mail.greenspot.fi just fine.

So, the error probably is in my sendmail configuration.

The error appeared as I today reconfigured the backup mail server to use 
a "dual sendmail" setup with amavis and greylisting. How could I proceed?

- Jussi